Namibia - Anna Heiser (34) kept her fans on tenterhooks for a whole day. With the sentence: "We are about to lose each other", she has been fuelling rumors since Wednesday that her marriage to Gerald Heiser (39) is about to end. On Thursday evening, she then dropped the next bombshell on Instagram: She and Gerald are "(still) not separated"!

The phrase: "We're about to lose each other" has been buzzing around in her head for weeks, says the mother of two.

"A sentence that was never intended to trigger speculation, attract attention, collect likes or even advertise, as some might suggest," writes the former "Bauer sucht Frau" contestant.

It's a sentence she could never have imagined feeling - and yet it describes the reality she shares with her husband, writes the emigrant.

"I've been sharing my/our life here for years and I'm not going to pretend it's an ideal world anymore." Then comes the strong sentence: "No, Gerald and I have not (yet) separated, but our relationship has a deep rift."

What's going on? Anna certainly has more to share with her 234,000 followers!

"On our journey together to realize a dream, we lost each other as a couple. We didn't even realize it... The love that once united us is overshadowed by negative emotions. The enormous pressure that weighs on us extinguishes any feelings."

And further: "It's hard to admit all this, to accept it. But only if we no longer close our eyes to reality do we have a chance of regaining what once united us."

The couple, who are already fighting for their farm in Namibia, now also want to fight for their love.

"Only time will tell whether we succeed. In the end, there are only two ways: either we overcome this crisis together and emerge stronger - or we go our separate ways," says Anna Heiser.